Latchkey kid: is a child who returns from school to an empty home because his or her parents are away at work, or a child who is often left at home with little or no parental supervision.
That is me and most us with the age ranging from early 30s
to the early 50s.
We are in a way kind of unique from the generation before
us which is the Baby Boomers where it all started from the way of our
upbringing which chain-reacted well into our adult lives.
Remember when we’re still kids, left alone to care for
ourselves while our parents went to work when maids were the luxury of upper
strata of the society? When both father and mother had to go out to earn the
living because the cost of necessities beginning to ballooning though not as
rapid as today?
We got back from school by ourselves and reheat whatever
meals left for us and perhaps doing some chores in the house. In other words,
we have the house keys hence the latchkey kids derived from. Without or little
adult supervisions, we survived to become what we are now.
The upbringing affects us now. We will become irritated
when our bosses hovering on our shoulders just to see what we are doing. To us
(me), as long as the work achieved its goal, get lost. And most of our bosses
are Baby Boomers, they never came out of their comfort box and yet they forced
us to be just like them.
They have the luxury of being cared by their mothers at
home because during their time, only the alpha males go to work. They will be
under the supervision of their mothers and they got carried away with the
systems they’re born into later in their careers. From my observation, not many
Baby Boomers knew how to say no to their superiors. A yes man...
We, Gen X prefer flexibility as long as point A reaches
point B we are cool aren’t we not?
Dang, I’m getting rusty with words...
Sometimes it baffles me on how major corporations employ
consultants or sometimes they have their own trained trainers on this topic to
preach on their workforce when in reality the top echelons won’t even come near
in analyzing and what more in practicing it.
For me, I approached my work as a job not a career and
certainly not a calling. Well to most of us I guess. Don’t just scoff me off just
yet but put on your thinking cap instead and feel me...
Note to self: I’m getting rusty with words...
4 comments:
Salam Yob,
suddenly U reappear from ur hibernation, no wonder u got rusty eh?
Hidup kena adapt, kalau tak boleh meroyan. I can get along with just about everyone, I reckon. Kalau tak boleh get along, stay home or wander. Wandering is the best activity there is.
wandering to cita2 teman yong oiiii...
so nice blogger i like all the posts
Nice one
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